Sex On Magic Mushrooms

Recreational drugs and sex have always been intertwined. Associated with the illicit and taboo, even though perceptions and social morays have evolved, they still tend to go hand in hand in the minds of many. 

In an era where casual encounters and one-night stands have become the norm, the exploration of intimacy takes center stage. Amidst the hustle of modern relationships, the embrace of psychedelics introduces a unique lens, promising a profound journey into the realms of self-discovery, connection, and understanding. As psychologist Neal Goldsmith aptly puts it, “Psychedelics enhance what’s already there, they put you in touch with reality with greater clarity and intensity than you generally experience.” Here we delve into the intersection of psychedelics, particularly magic mushrooms and truffles, and the intricate tapestry of human sexuality, examining how these substances might serve as catalysts for deeper emotional and physical connections in a world that often prioritizes the transient over the profound.

Psychedelics Transform All Experiences

Psychedelics can transform the most mundane of experiences — so just imagine what they could do for sex! However, a shroom trip where you aim to have sex is no different from other trips, in that you cannot fully predict how it’s going to go. Of course, you can control your dosage, and your set and setting — but during a shroom trip, you cannot, for example, be sure if you’ll feel sociable and full of wonder, rather than introspective and quiet. Some people find that even if they planned to get it on during a psychedelic trip, they may feel too overwhelmed with the sensations caused, or distracted by emotions raised, or just too engrossed in enjoying their trip solo, to do anything physical. In some cases simply cuddling can feel euphorically intimate. 
Its not a good idea to force anything in these situations. If the partner you are with wants you to do anything your not completely comfortable with, this feeling can be heavily intensified while under the influence of psilocybin, so be sure to communicate properly about how you feel and what you are ok with.

For those that do decide to ‘do it’ however, it can be one of the most magical moments of their lives. As Liz Elliot, sometime-lover of psychedelic icon Timothy Leary, said of their tuned-in and turned-on experiences;

“We could play with each other’s brains, stroke mental erogenous zones. Flash electric current between us.” 

What is Sex on Magic Mushrooms Like?

As we mentioned above, psilocybin intensifies and amplifies any experience. While on mushrooms you will find your senses and your perception of the world considerably heightened. This means that during sex or intimate acts you can expect a heightened sense of touch and amplified feelings of pleasure. It can also produce intensified emotions towards your partner. However, sex on magic mushrooms is as difficult to paint a picture of as a psychedelic mushroom trip in general. It is a totally subjective experience, that no two people will experience the same way. So, if you really wanna know, you’ll have to try for yourself.

Time For Some Tips

Well, as this is a tricky area, we have decided to share some tips, advice and rules-of-thumb on how to have the best, and safest, time if you and your partner choose to have sex on shrooms! Of course, you can’t always plan when ‘the urge’ arises, but hopefully with our advice you may be a little prepared if the sparks start to fly… psychedelically. 

1. Consent Is King

As you can never completely divine where a psychedelic trip might take you, it is good to discuss what could happen beforehand in this most intimate of acts. You should decide on the dosage, the method, etc, together beforehand. Make sure you establish boundaries and intentions before you start anything; this will both make you feel more comfortable (essential for any trip!), and prepare you for unexpected eventualities down the road. Once decided, you may proceed with cautious excitement…

2. Pick Your Partner Wisely

One of the most important things is who you choose to have your psychedelic sex with. Ideally, they are a long-term partner who you know well, trust, and have had a substantial amount of sex with already. The better you know each other, and each others’ sexual likes and dislikes, the easier and more enjoyable it will be. You may have even tripped together before in a non-sexual context! 

That is, of course, the ideal. But, in these situations there’s a possibility that you won’t know your partner that well; whether you’ve only been dating a few weeks, or you’ve just met at a festival — dancing around in facepaint. What you both have to realize, is that sex in and of itself can be a very deep and bonding experience, introducing psilocybin to the equation can increase the intensity greatly, and with that, the bonding and the connection experienced. We want to emphasize the importance of being on the same page. If one of the parties has their hopes up and the other is in it for the lust, someone could get their feelings really hurt.

3. Sexy Settings

Like any trip, the setting is of paramount importance. Again, somewhere in which you feel comfortable or familiar is ideal. With the heightened senses that come from tripping, even your own bed takes on an entirely new dimension. Launder some fresh sheets, set some cozy mood lighting and see the ordinary transformed.  

Alternatively, many people cite camping or festival trips to be the ideal place to try some psychedelic sex. Being surrounded by nature is always a tripper favorite, but combining it with love-making can make you feel connected to the earth like nothing else. Many people recommend it… just be careful not to let anyone see you!

4. Dosage 

Now, many people might think that taking shrooms and then attempting to have sex is a laughable idea. When the world becomes so engaging, and frankly weird, can you focus on the ‘job’ at hand? Well, for many people the answer might be no. That’s fine too! You may have planned to have sex but instead spend 3 hours staring into each other’s eyes. It will probably be just as intimate. For those who do feel up to it however, Michelle Janikian author of Your Psilocybin Companion: An Informative, Easy-to-Use Guide to Understanding Magic Mushrooms, recommends 1.5 to 3.5g of dried shrooms— thats 5-20g of fresh truffles, lovers. She believes this is enough to be able to foster a deep and out-of-this-world connection.

Alternatively, some people prefer taking a microdose (around one 10th of a psychedelic dose), or just a very moderate dose to make love. Many people find this to be a good way to start, and you still can appreciate the enhanced feelings of touch and emotion that a lower dosage can still bring. This is also ideal for beginners— once you’ve got some experience you can branch out. Exactly the same as tripping and sex when done separately, really!

5. Timing Is Everything

A popular way of incorporating sex and psychedelic mushrooms is by waiting until after the peak of the trip. In the comedown, when the sensations are softer and you are feeling the afterglow of whatever journey you have made, it can be the perfect time to get intimate with your partner. Intercourse while peaking is probably only worth attempting once you have a little more experience.

6. Get Tantric

Amid the waves of a psilocybin journey, there’s a unique opportunity to amplify connection and sensuality through tantric practices. Embracing tantra during your trip is like opening a door to a realm where time slows, and every sensation becomes a vibrant thread in the tapestry of the experience. Tantra, meaning “interwoven” in Sanskrit, encourages a mindful connection with yourself and your partner, taking the time be fully present with each other. This isn’t about reaching a destination; it’s an invitation to immerse yourself in the sensations, creating a profound connection or reaching emotional fulfilment. It doesn’t even necessarily have to be sexual intercourse. Staring into each others eyes, massaging shoulders or simply cuddling can be a transcendently sexual experience when combined with the heighted state brought on by psychedelics. Taking the time to give respect reverence to the actual act of sex itself only increases the sensuality and depth of the experience.

Syncing breaths, a fundamental aspect of tantric sex, takes on a profound significance during a truffle trip. It’s a shared rhythm that not only aligns bodies but also intertwines energies in the dance of connection. Breathing exercises have long been used both to induce, and in combination with, altered states of consciousness. As you explore each other’s bodies and navigate the intricate landscapes of your minds, the slowed-down pace of breath focused tantra resonates harmoniously with the unhurried journey of the truffle experience.

7. Shrooms— A Love Potion?

Psychedelic mushrooms are known to enhance feelings of connection, love and one-ness with the world for the user. Couple that with the intimate experience of sex and you could have yourself a psychedelic love potion! It may sound silly, but be warned— as Janikian says

  “I feel like if you trip with someone it can be like six months of dating in one day because you get to know them on this new level.” 

8. Self Discovery

Sex on psychedelics offer a unique journey of self-discovery and connection. It can deepen existing relationships or bring attention to areas needing reassessment. This heightened state may reveal truths about desires and emotions, showcasing selfishness, lust, and more. Like any psychedelic journey, sexual or not, the experience serves as a mirror, prompting a confrontation with oneself. You could foster an even deeper connection with your existing partner, or fall in love with an entirely new person. On the other hand the intensity of the experience could make you realize your relationship is not working anymore, or even that you’re in love with someone else. Such personal revelations are possible on psychedelics whether you’re with a partner or not. Embracing this journey involves recognizing uncomfortable truths as transformative steps, unfolding at your own pace. Artist Annie Sprinkle in her book How Psychedelic Informed My Sex Life and Sex Work states;

“Both sex and psychedelics are ultimately about consciousness, about self-discovery, and going beyond everyday reality to that magical place somewhere over the rainbow, where we feel Divine and we experience some truth.”

In the dance between psychedelics and intimacy, expect revelations, embrace connection, and remember each realization is a part of your unique path of self-discovery.